Life's too short

OMG!!! Life is too short. I just found out that a great friend of mine just lost his mom today. She's been sick for a couple of weeks because of complications from surgery but this was definitely not expected, of course it was always a possibility but it's never something you are prepared for. I wish so badly that I could be there to support him in person but I just want him to know that I will always be there to support him in every other way I can. I got in a huge fight with him about a month or 2 before we moved and we haven't made up yet. I never want something like that to happen ever again. We both have let our pride get in the way and it's not worth it. Not at all. I want to call him and tell him that he can call me anytime but I'm afraid that it's too soon for him. I don't know...I guess I should call anyway...just so he knows I'm thinking about him. Life is so insane, I just can't figure it out.
So, I'm talking to my dad last night and he starts telling me that he thinks I should put him or my mom on my bank account so that if they need to for any reason they can conduct business on my behalf?!?!?!? Ummmmm, ok. I don't get it. He's never thought I should do that before so I don't know what has changed. Apparently he told my sister that he is worried something is going to happen with Brian and I. He keeps saying how much he really likes Brian but that he just has this "feeling" that we are moving to fast and something is going to happen. WTF!! I just don't get it at all and why the hell won't he talk to me about it? My sis says it's because he doesn't want to make me mad or hurt my feelings but I think it's worse this way. I just don't know what to do at this point. I promised myself that I would listen to my parents concerns in the future but I if I don't understand them then I don't know how I can listen to them.
Well, I'm off to go sign the papers on my house.

Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it.
---Helen Keller